Life in Motion: Case Study*
*trigger warning, domestic abuse mentioned
BE KIND, NO EXCUSES: RIE’S MISSION TO PREVENT DOMESTIC ABUSE BEFORE IT STARTS
After 27 years serving as a police officer specialising in domestic abuse, Rie Pearson had seen it all - from urgent call-outs in the early hours to supporting survivors through the court system. Working closely with organisations such as the Angelou Centre, she witnessed the reality of how abuse affects women and girls - especially those from marginalised and under-resourced backgrounds. On retiring from the police, she channelled her knowledge and experience into a book titled Be Kind, No Excuses, written to help girls recognise early warning signs of abuse in relationships.
At first, she believed that writing the book would be the end of her journey. But when someone suggested turning it into a community interest company, she knew the work was just beginning. She gave the organisation the same name - Be Kind, No Excuses - and quickly realised how urgent and necessary the mission was. After publication, women began approaching her, survivors who had never previously spoken out. That response made clear that the need for education and awareness was greater than she had anticipated.
From Book to Movement
Today, Be Kind, No Excuses is focused on early intervention - educating girls and, increasingly, parents on how to recognise red flags and break cycles of abuse before they start. During one session with parents, Rie asked who felt embarrassed talking to their children about sex and relationships. Around 90%of those present raised their hands. For her, it was further proof that too many families lack the confidence and language to address vital issues around relationships, consent and emotional safety.
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